Showing posts with label Choosing Life Partner. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Choosing Life Partner. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Learn to trust caz it matters most in every long term relation



Trust is the base of every relation no matter it's a love affair, a friendship or something else. If you don't have a trust then you don't have anything. If you can't trust people, people won't be able to trust you as well, this is simple logic. And when you are not trusting people and people are not trusting you as well, you won't get a long term relation. Relation will be there but it won't last long, moreover it won't be something that you will like. Now if you fake trust you might get the trust of your partner but as you are not trusting your partner you will always have a bad feeling about your partner. This bad feeling will lead your relation to an end for sure. Think positively and try not to worry too much about your partner. This is where a long term relation starts.

Now comes earning trust of people. If you trust people and don't allow them to trust you then you will always get the bitter outcome. You have to behave, act and communicate with people in a way that they can trust you. People often try to make their partner jealous but this becomes a boomerang often, when your partner can't trust you anymore and they leaves you as a result. Making your partner jealous is good for a short term relation but when you are going for the big fish please don't try to make your partner jealous because today or tomorrow jealous partner always losses faith.

There is no Bible for a great relationship management but what I can tell you is you need dig it and you need to learn if you want to get into a great relationship you need to give it some effort and brain. And remember trust is the key to every long term relationship. A few suggestions and reviews from you would be real inspiration for me. So please feel free... :)

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Choosing a partner

Choosing a life partner is always a difficult issue. If you are asked to find the biggest tomato in a tomato field and the rule is you can't change the tomato if touched, it really becomes difficult. We don't know what we can find in near future because we don't have a time machine. And the truth is we always get better options in future but we need to be happy with the one we are living. Help your partner to read you because no one can read you if you don't want them to. Try to match by changing yourself and your partner. To get something you will need to pay something in return and this is reality. You cannot expect your partner to leave everything and be your type while you remain same you. And when you are trying to find the best option available for you you should consider the moral values and philosophies very carefully, please don't seek money and assets. Like I said to get something you have to pay something. In most cases the one's having more assets and money are the one having cheaper moral values and philosophies. And another issue is most people seeks money and asset so when a person have these they get love from more people. As a result there is more possibility that they will get better options than you! When you have already chosen someone as partner don't try compare him or her with others but try to match with him or her. Look for the good sides your partner have don't seek the bad sides. And change your bad sides instead of being happy with the good sides.
In today's world money seems to be everything. Things that we love can get using money and so we are loving money doing everything for money but money is a shit it's the reason of every sorrow. It seems that people worships money, please don't let it be and please don't choose your partner according to their financial condition. Be happy with what you have and make other happy with what you have.