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There's been always people who tends to go away when you come closer and if you stay away they pretends to ignore, actually ignores or shows how broken they are but comes a bit closer. At that point if you come closer again, they starts to run again. It seems that they are unmanageable. But they are so precious that so many people wants them. In this post I will discuss how I believe we can get them in our life. First of all you have to be sure that you want them. Because they are not the cheap people and it takes a lot to get them into your life.

Let's discuss why. It's like they are confused about you want them or you don't but they does want you because when you want someone from your heart they wants you as well this is the rule. And due to this rule they might want so many people at the same time. It's a hard choice for them as well. When your answer to their question is yes you want them, they will act as come and get me. If you have the courage to go and get them then it's OK but they does make this simple task so difficult. If you give them the answer no I don't then they will be like- Fine go away I will find someone else or I have other people to choose from or they will pretend to ignore or they will ignore or they will show you how broken they are or they will show you how happy they are anything but they won't come to you. And if you make them confused they will keep on playing like mind fucking. Mind fucking is like getting into your mind and getting out of your mind again. It's fun and suffering at the same time. But either way you don't get them in your life.

Now you are asking how could they?? Because they are stronger. And the main problem is you don't admit it. You don't need to show the world that you know that they are stronger just know that they are stronger.

Now comes how to get them in your life again. There's a very easy way but in this way you can loose them for ever and there is a difficult way with a higher possibility of success. Easy way- Don't say yes, don't say no and don't make them confused. Get in front of them and ask them to stay, force them to stay. They will be yours or they will leave you forever. Difficult way, be stronger then they are. If you have said no, keep on saying no and if you have said yes keep on saying yes and keep making them confused if you have already made them confused until you are satisfied with their activity. If you find them ignoring you, then hit them in a way that they knows you are hitting (Good way or bad way). Meanwhile you might face them all broken and down or so happy, it's not easy but you just need to be strong. Keep on saying the same that you are saying. At one fine point they will forget you forever (This is rare) or they will come to you ( :D ). If this doesn't work get bored and move on.

You might get confused that how doing the same things can lead to a different result. It's all about presentation. You have to stick to one plan, keep on doing whatever you are doing. You try mind fucking and changing what you are saying they fail to trust you and you face something you don't want to face. They will play with you.

Why is the difference between doing same things in different way. There's a point where everyone breaks down. You have to wait for that point. You change what you are doing and it's like you are starting from the beginning again. Sometimes we do need to change the plan but when you change the plan, you should be ready for the more time.

If it's about revenge, then I don't want to talk about it as it's the hardest and it takes most (everything). But I can give you a clue FORGIVE.


Hope it would help. If it doesn't forgive me but I do try to help. Thanks for reading this.

Learn to trust caz it matters most in every long term relation

Trust is the base of every relation no matter it's a love affair, a friendship or something else. If you don't have a trust then you don't have anything. If you can't trust people, people won't be able to trust you as well, this is simple logic. And when you are not trusting people and people are not trusting you as well, you won't get a long term relation. Relation will be there but it won't last long, moreover it won't be something that you will like. Now if you fake trust you might get the trust of your partner but as you are not trusting your partner you will always have a bad feeling about your partner. This bad feeling will lead your relation to an end for sure. Think positively and try not to worry too much about your partner. This is where a long term relation starts.

Now comes earning trust of people. If you trust people and don't allow them to trust you then you will always get the bitter outcome. You have to behave, act and communicate with people in a way that they can trust you. People often try to make their partner jealous but this becomes a boomerang often, when your partner can't trust you anymore and they leaves you as a result. Making your partner jealous is good for a short term relation but when you are going for the big fish please don't try to make your partner jealous because today or tomorrow jealous partner always losses faith.

There is no Bible for a great relationship management but what I can tell you is you need dig it and you need to learn if you want to get into a great relationship you need to give it some effort and brain. And remember trust is the key to every long term relationship. A few suggestions and reviews from you would be real inspiration for me. So please feel free... :)

Why not to be sorry...

During recent times I am having a feelings that no one around is happy. People doing wrong things, making wrong choices and not getting things they want. People are just not happy with things that they have but my dear friend can't you see we do have lot of things that many don't have?? Haven't we lived happily when we didn't had things that we want now?? If something that you love is taken away from you, then you should know 'that something' is going to be OK. If it's not OK without you then be with it but don't be sorry. Because being sorry is not a solution. Why should you be sorry when being sorry won't do any good but it would cause many damage to you and the people around you. If you have made a wrong choice, a wrong move or a wrong decision try to learn from it. It will make you stronger and will be good for you in future. I promise there will be a time when you will smile thinking that this something was taken away from you. Be happy that nothing is all right now as nothing remains same all the time. There will be a time for sure, when things will be changed and everything will be alright. If you can't help yourself no once can, so try to realize that being sorry is never an option find something that makes you happy and be happy always, just don't do harm to anyone...

Difficult time is the time that makes you more stronger and ensures that you won't face this again. So enjoy your sorrow and learn from it. I promise everything has a end, even if it's called sorrow...

Money to be hated

Once there was free people living in a free planet. We used to work less enjoy more and if there was a danger we used to die without the fear of dieing stressing us long before our death. Now we work more enjoy less and always well aware about how we can die. We do think about how it feels to die. It's money that changed everything. Money made the death look negotiable, when it's not. Money made life lot easier but only for a few and the rest tries to get in that position through out their entire life. And to make life easier using money we take lot of stress and we had to work endlessly as needs created by money are endless as well. At the present time everything that we do, we do for money and everything that happens to us happens for money. it seems that we are worshiping money. But I am a Muslim and I worship Allah. Things should be changed before it's too late...

Friends

Friends mean a lot to many of us as we used to hook up with our friends for a long time everyday. This scenario is same in almost every country including European countries, Asian countries, African countries, Arabian countries everywhere in every culture people learns a lot from their friends. In most cases a persons psychology and mentality depends largely on the type of friends they have. Just as the aura in WAR CRAFT may change the strength of everyone surrounding people have their impact on the people roaming around. And when it's about about your best buddies, they can bring a hell lot of change in you. People usually spends more time with their friends, specially the young people and the kids. During our childhood and young age our philosophies and characters takes the basic shape that remains unchanged during our old ages in most cases. So considering all these factors we can easily say friendship is a very important part of our life and we should be very careful while choosing a friend. Now the question comes, how do we choose the right friend? Everyone says we should choose a friends who has a similar mentality. But I won't say that, I will say having friends of different mentality will let you know their logic and while taking any decision it will get you the opportunity to choose from a more option. Just as magnet does, attracting the opposite directions, people actually makes friendship and love with the people having complete or mostly different type. As friends means a lot in everyone's life we should choose friends very carefully and in a way that we get the best friends that is possible. But while choosing friends we should make friendship with people who are interested and willing to make friendship with us and we should not bother people not interested as it won't do much good. Now here comes my personal suggestions about what type of friends we should choose. Don't judge the activity try to find out the motive behind the job, don't judge someone by his activity with others because you don't know them, judge people by his activity with you and while choosing a friend observe them vary carefully and try to find out what impact he/she might have on you and guide yourself by choosing the best friends. Remember it won't make you feel good if you make wrong friends.

Choosing a partner

Choosing a life partner is always a difficult issue. If you are asked to find the biggest tomato in a tomato field and the rule is you can't change the tomato if touched, it really becomes difficult. We don't know what we can find in near future because we don't have a time machine. And the truth is we always get better options in future but we need to be happy with the one we are living. Help your partner to read you because no one can read you if you don't want them to. Try to match by changing yourself and your partner. To get something you will need to pay something in return and this is reality. You cannot expect your partner to leave everything and be your type while you remain same you. And when you are trying to find the best option available for you you should consider the moral values and philosophies very carefully, please don't seek money and assets. Like I said to get something you have to pay something. In most cases the one's having more assets and money are the one having cheaper moral values and philosophies. And another issue is most people seeks money and asset so when a person have these they get love from more people. As a result there is more possibility that they will get better options than you! When you have already chosen someone as partner don't try compare him or her with others but try to match with him or her. Look for the good sides your partner have don't seek the bad sides. And change your bad sides instead of being happy with the good sides.
In today's world money seems to be everything. Things that we love can get using money and so we are loving money doing everything for money but money is a shit it's the reason of every sorrow. It seems that people worships money, please don't let it be and please don't choose your partner according to their financial condition. Be happy with what you have and make other happy with what you have.

Hijibiji

In accounting the debit and credit sides are always equal. But in real life good things and bad things happening as a result of different incidents, are not said to be equal. Let me think there is equal good and bad consequences of every incident. Now if so, then how can God decide whom to send in hell and whom to send in heaven? Whats the point in taking so much time and pressure deciding what to do? Whats the point of being so serious? In USA there was 794300 full-time police officers in 2010 wikipedia and I am sure many of them would loose their jobs if there were no crimes. Suppose I am bluffing and cheating in a relationship. I am sure most of you will think I am a bad guy but This bluffing and cheating can make someone more careful next time. You may have lost your love but think how did it felt when you where together? Then why should you be sorry when the memory left is always enjoyable? All I want to say is nothing matters except our motive. So change your motive and things will be changed by itself. Don't let others to guide your philosophy and thinking. Change your point of view according to what you are. A person can find a half glass of water half filled and another person can find it half empty. Most people in this world is trying to make others like himself don't fall in their trap and be yourself. Don't try to be like others there is people to be like them. And please don't try to make others like you let them be them. If you want to be a good guy prove yourself a good guy to yourself, you need not to prove yourself in front of everyone. Good things are those that you can admit in front of everyone. Be good to mankind.  
You might wonder what's this all about it's just me talking to myself in front of every one.