Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Learn to trust caz it matters most in every long term relation



Trust is the base of every relation no matter it's a love affair, a friendship or something else. If you don't have a trust then you don't have anything. If you can't trust people, people won't be able to trust you as well, this is simple logic. And when you are not trusting people and people are not trusting you as well, you won't get a long term relation. Relation will be there but it won't last long, moreover it won't be something that you will like. Now if you fake trust you might get the trust of your partner but as you are not trusting your partner you will always have a bad feeling about your partner. This bad feeling will lead your relation to an end for sure. Think positively and try not to worry too much about your partner. This is where a long term relation starts.

Now comes earning trust of people. If you trust people and don't allow them to trust you then you will always get the bitter outcome. You have to behave, act and communicate with people in a way that they can trust you. People often try to make their partner jealous but this becomes a boomerang often, when your partner can't trust you anymore and they leaves you as a result. Making your partner jealous is good for a short term relation but when you are going for the big fish please don't try to make your partner jealous because today or tomorrow jealous partner always losses faith.

There is no Bible for a great relationship management but what I can tell you is you need dig it and you need to learn if you want to get into a great relationship you need to give it some effort and brain. And remember trust is the key to every long term relationship. A few suggestions and reviews from you would be real inspiration for me. So please feel free... :)

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Why not to be sorry...



During recent times I am having a feelings that no one around is happy. People doing wrong things, making wrong choices and not getting things they want. People are just not happy with things that they have but my dear friend can't you see we do have lot of things that many don't have?? Haven't we lived happily when we didn't had things that we want now?? If something that you love is taken away from you, then you should know 'that something' is going to be OK. If it's not OK without you then be with it but don't be sorry. Because being sorry is not a solution. Why should you be sorry when being sorry won't do any good but it would cause many damage to you and the people around you. If you have made a wrong choice, a wrong move or a wrong decision try to learn from it. It will make you stronger and will be good for you in future. I promise there will be a time when you will smile thinking that this something was taken away from you. Be happy that nothing is all right now as nothing remains same all the time. There will be a time for sure, when things will be changed and everything will be alright. If you can't help yourself no once can, so try to realize that being sorry is never an option find something that makes you happy and be happy always, just don't do harm to anyone...

Difficult time is the time that makes you more stronger and ensures that you won't face this again. So enjoy your sorrow and learn from it. I promise everything has a end, even if it's called sorrow...