Friends

Friends mean a lot to many of us as we used to hook up with our friends for a long time everyday. This scenario is same in almost every country including European countries, Asian countries, African countries, Arabian countries everywhere in every culture people learns a lot from their friends. In most cases a persons psychology and mentality depends largely on the type of friends they have. Just as the aura in WAR CRAFT may change the strength of everyone surrounding people have their impact on the people roaming around. And when it's about about your best buddies, they can bring a hell lot of change in you. People usually spends more time with their friends, specially the young people and the kids. During our childhood and young age our philosophies and characters takes the basic shape that remains unchanged during our old ages in most cases. So considering all these factors we can easily say friendship is a very important part of our life and we should be very careful while choosing a friend. Now the question comes, how do we choose the right friend? Everyone says we should choose a friends who has a similar mentality. But I won't say that, I will say having friends of different mentality will let you know their logic and while taking any decision it will get you the opportunity to choose from a more option. Just as magnet does, attracting the opposite directions, people actually makes friendship and love with the people having complete or mostly different type. As friends means a lot in everyone's life we should choose friends very carefully and in a way that we get the best friends that is possible. But while choosing friends we should make friendship with people who are interested and willing to make friendship with us and we should not bother people not interested as it won't do much good. Now here comes my personal suggestions about what type of friends we should choose. Don't judge the activity try to find out the motive behind the job, don't judge someone by his activity with others because you don't know them, judge people by his activity with you and while choosing a friend observe them vary carefully and try to find out what impact he/she might have on you and guide yourself by choosing the best friends. Remember it won't make you feel good if you make wrong friends.

Choosing a partner

Choosing a life partner is always a difficult issue. If you are asked to find the biggest tomato in a tomato field and the rule is you can't change the tomato if touched, it really becomes difficult. We don't know what we can find in near future because we don't have a time machine. And the truth is we always get better options in future but we need to be happy with the one we are living. Help your partner to read you because no one can read you if you don't want them to. Try to match by changing yourself and your partner. To get something you will need to pay something in return and this is reality. You cannot expect your partner to leave everything and be your type while you remain same you. And when you are trying to find the best option available for you you should consider the moral values and philosophies very carefully, please don't seek money and assets. Like I said to get something you have to pay something. In most cases the one's having more assets and money are the one having cheaper moral values and philosophies. And another issue is most people seeks money and asset so when a person have these they get love from more people. As a result there is more possibility that they will get better options than you! When you have already chosen someone as partner don't try compare him or her with others but try to match with him or her. Look for the good sides your partner have don't seek the bad sides. And change your bad sides instead of being happy with the good sides.
In today's world money seems to be everything. Things that we love can get using money and so we are loving money doing everything for money but money is a shit it's the reason of every sorrow. It seems that people worships money, please don't let it be and please don't choose your partner according to their financial condition. Be happy with what you have and make other happy with what you have.

Hijibiji

In accounting the debit and credit sides are always equal. But in real life good things and bad things happening as a result of different incidents, are not said to be equal. Let me think there is equal good and bad consequences of every incident. Now if so, then how can God decide whom to send in hell and whom to send in heaven? Whats the point in taking so much time and pressure deciding what to do? Whats the point of being so serious? In USA there was 794300 full-time police officers in 2010 wikipedia and I am sure many of them would loose their jobs if there were no crimes. Suppose I am bluffing and cheating in a relationship. I am sure most of you will think I am a bad guy but This bluffing and cheating can make someone more careful next time. You may have lost your love but think how did it felt when you where together? Then why should you be sorry when the memory left is always enjoyable? All I want to say is nothing matters except our motive. So change your motive and things will be changed by itself. Don't let others to guide your philosophy and thinking. Change your point of view according to what you are. A person can find a half glass of water half filled and another person can find it half empty. Most people in this world is trying to make others like himself don't fall in their trap and be yourself. Don't try to be like others there is people to be like them. And please don't try to make others like you let them be them. If you want to be a good guy prove yourself a good guy to yourself, you need not to prove yourself in front of everyone. Good things are those that you can admit in front of everyone. Be good to mankind.  
You might wonder what's this all about it's just me talking to myself in front of every one.