There's been always people who tends to go away when you come closer and if you stay away they pretends to ignore, actually ignores or shows how broken they are but comes a bit closer. At that point if you come closer again, they starts to run again. It seems that they are unmanageable. But they are so precious that so many people wants them. In this post I will discuss how I believe we can get them in our life. First of all you have to be sure that you want them. Because they are not the cheap people and it takes a lot to get them into your life.
Let's discuss why. It's like they are confused about you want them or you don't but they does want you because when you want someone from your heart they wants you as well this is the rule. And due to this rule they might want so many people at the same time. It's a hard choice for them as well. When your answer to their question is yes you want them, they will act as come and get me. If you have the courage to go and get them then it's OK but they does make this simple task so difficult. If you give them the answer no I don't then they will be like- Fine go away I will find someone else or I have other people to choose from or they will pretend to ignore or they will ignore or they will show you how broken they are or they will show you how happy they are anything but they won't come to you. And if you make them confused they will keep on playing like mind fucking. Mind fucking is like getting into your mind and getting out of your mind again. It's fun and suffering at the same time. But either way you don't get them in your life.
Now you are asking how could they?? Because they are stronger. And the main problem is you don't admit it. You don't need to show the world that you know that they are stronger just know that they are stronger.
Now comes how to get them in your life again. There's a very easy way but in this way you can loose them for ever and there is a difficult way with a higher possibility of success. Easy way- Don't say yes, don't say no and don't make them confused. Get in front of them and ask them to stay, force them to stay. They will be yours or they will leave you forever. Difficult way, be stronger then they are. If you have said no, keep on saying no and if you have said yes keep on saying yes and keep making them confused if you have already made them confused until you are satisfied with their activity. If you find them ignoring you, then hit them in a way that they knows you are hitting (Good way or bad way). Meanwhile you might face them all broken and down or so happy, it's not easy but you just need to be strong. Keep on saying the same that you are saying. At one fine point they will forget you forever (This is rare) or they will come to you ( :D ). If this doesn't work get bored and move on.
You might get confused that how doing the same things can lead to a different result. It's all about presentation. You have to stick to one plan, keep on doing whatever you are doing. You try mind fucking and changing what you are saying they fail to trust you and you face something you don't want to face. They will play with you.
Why is the difference between doing same things in different way. There's a point where everyone breaks down. You have to wait for that point. You change what you are doing and it's like you are starting from the beginning again. Sometimes we do need to change the plan but when you change the plan, you should be ready for the more time.
If it's about revenge, then I don't want to talk about it as it's the hardest and it takes most (everything). But I can give you a clue FORGIVE.
Hope it would help. If it doesn't forgive me but I do try to help. Thanks for reading this.
